Funny Quote by Paul Rudnick
““I’m glad you’re gay,” she said solemnly, “because that way, if I can’t have you, no one can.” “Um, Rocher,” I mentioned, “like, a dude could have him.” This had never occurred to Rocher because she’d thought that Jate being gay translated as, “I love Rocher Bargemueller so much but I don’t deserve her so I’ll never have sex again.” The concept of Jate with a guy was fresh turf and Rocher regarded him with an especially deranged sparkle in her eyes. “I could be a dude,” she said.””
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Gay Bar” in The New Yorker, 1995
A character expresses possessive love, implying that if they cannot have the beloved, no one else should.
In simple terms: Possessive love can become controlling.
Key Takeaway
Recognize healthy boundaries in affection.
Themes
love
possessiveness
identity
sexuality
Mood
thoughtful
critical
Type
literary
dialogue
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- self-reflection
- coming out
Key Concepts
boundaries
self-worth
acceptance
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate love from control?
- What boundaries protect both partners?
A Different Perspective
The sentiment can be manipulative and harmful.
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