Appropriate Quote by David Sedaris
“It is never appropriate to comment on a woman's breasts. I would never do it on the street or at a supermarket, but when I'm sitting a table signing books, sometimes I notice that a woman will have remarkable breasts. And I will maybe quietly say something about it. It's not in a sexual way, because I'm a gay man - I would never say to a man "great ass" because that would be sort of creepy.. I hope it's not creepy to quietly tell a woman she has nice breasts.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Personal reflections on social etiquette, 2015
Commenting on a woman’s breasts, even non‑sexually, can be perceived as creepy; intention and context matter.
In simple terms: Remarks about bodies risk being seen as inappropriate.
Key Takeaway
Respect boundaries, consider how comments may be received.
Themes
etiquette
gender
perception
sexuality
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
ethical
reflective
When to use this quote
- book signings
- social gatherings
- online interactions
- workplace environments
Key Concepts
Social norms
personal expression
public vs private space
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to compliment physical appearance?
- How can you convey admiration without crossing lines?
A Different Perspective
Even well‑meaning remarks can cause discomfort or be misinterpreted.
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