Deals Quote by Stephen Colbert
“The interesting thing about grief, I think, is that it is its own size. It is not the size of you. It is its own size. And grief comes to you. You know what I mean? I’ve always liked that phrase “He was visited by grief,” because that’s really what it is. Grief is its own thing. It’s not like it’s in me and I’m going to deal with it. It’s a thing, and you have to be okay with its presence. If you try to ignore it, it will be like a wolf at your door.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Late Show, Stephen Colbert, 2020
Grief is an independent force that arrives uninvited and must be acknowledged rather than suppressed.
In simple terms: Grief comes on its own and must be faced.
Key Takeaway
Accept grief’s presence and learn from it.
Themes
loss
acceptance
mental health
Mood
thoughtful
empathetic
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- bereavement
- therapy
- support groups
- personal growth
Key Concepts
psychology
existentialism
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “grief visiting” mean to you?
- How can you honor grief without being overwhelmed?
A Different Perspective
Denial can intensify pain.
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