Funny Quote by Vedrana Rudan
““Moja mama? Umrla je. Njena je teza da moram sa svim muškarcima biti ljubazna inače će me oni ostaviti pa ću umreti od tuge. Nikad me nitko nije ostavio. Sve sam svoje muškarce ja ostavila. Ali, dok su bili sa mnom bila sam s njima ljubazna. I to me ždere. Zašto mi s njima ne možemo otvoreno razgovarati_ Kao muškarac s muškarcem. Umorna sam od glume, dosta mi je svega. Da znate, na neki ste mi način pomogli. Večeras ću doći doma, reći ću mu, neću vrištati, reći ću mu normalnim glasom: 'Stari, ne boli me glava. Stari, nije to od atenolola koji ubija svaku spolnu želju, a kod muškaraca izaziva rak prostate. Stari, nije mi skočio tlak. Stari, jednostavno mi se s tobom ne jebe. Ne shvati to osobno, volim te, luda sam za tobom, ali mi se s tobom ne jebe, pička ti materina!””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Personal Narrative, Vedrana Rudan, 2020
A woman expresses frustration with societal expectations to be kind to men, feeling trapped in a double bind that harms her mental health, and seeks honest communication despite fear of rejection.
In simple terms: She feels forced to be nice to men, causing pain and exhaustion.
Key Takeaway
Seek authentic dialogue and set boundaries.
Themes
gender roles
shame
communication
mental health
double bind
Mood
frustrated
hopeful
Type
personal
emotional
When to use this quote
- family discussions
- therapy sessions
- support groups
- advocacy
- personal journaling
Key Concepts
feminist critique
psychology
social expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries can you set with demanding expectations?
- How can you communicate needs without fear?
A Different Perspective
Cultural context may affect interpretation; not all readers share the same background.
