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“Whether or not you employ humor in dealing with difficult subjects, the tone of the writing is of the utmost importance. Personally, I can read about almost any subject if I feel a basic trust in, and respect for, the writer. The voice must have authority. But more than that, I must know that the…” quote by Judith Barrington
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““Whether or not you employ humor in dealing with difficult subjects, the tone of the writing is of the utmost importance. Personally, I can read about almost any subject if I feel a basic trust in, and respect for, the writer. The voice must have authority. But more than that, I must know that the writer is all right. If she describes a suicide attempt or a babysitter's cruelty to her, or a time of acute loneliness, I need to feel that the writer, not the character who survived the experience, is in control of telling the story…The tone of such pieces may be serious, ironic, angry, sad, or almost anything except whiny. There must be no hidden plea for help - no subtle seeking of sympathy. The writer must have done her work, made her peace with the facts, and be telling the story for the story's sake. Although the writing may incidentally turn out to be another step in her recovery, that must not be her visible motivation: literary writing is not therapy. Her first allegiance must be to the telling of the story and I, as the reader, must feel that I'm in the hands of a competent writer who needs nothing from me except my attention.””

Judith Barrington

About This Quote

Source Essay: Writing on Difficult Subjects, 2015

Effective writing on painful topics requires a trustworthy, authoritative voice that shows the writer is in control, not seeking sympathy.

In simple terms: A writer must be credible and in control when handling tough topics.

Key Takeaway

Maintain authority and avoid self‑pity.

Themes

trust authority tone empathy ethics

Mood

reflective serious analytical

Type

literary ethical instructional

When to use this quote

  • non‑fiction memoir
  • journalism
  • personal essays
  • therapy‑related writing

Key Concepts

narrative control reader‑writer relationship literary ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can a writer convey competence without appearing detached?
  • What signals reassure readers of a writer’s authority?
A Different Perspective

If the writer appears vulnerable, readers may doubt credibility and disengage.

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