Attraction Quote by Dave Barry
“I believe it was Shakespeare, or possibly Howard Cosell, who first observed that marriage is very much like a birthday candle, in that 'the flames of passion burn brightest when the wick of intimacy is first ignited by the disposable butane lighter of physical attraction, but sooner or later the heat of familiarity causes the wax of boredom to drip all over the vanilla frosting of novelty and the shredded coconut of romance.' I could not have phrased it better myself.”
About This Quote
Marriage starts with intense passion but often fades into routine, turning excitement into monotony over time.
In simple terms: Passion fades, routine replaces novelty.
Key Takeaway
Nurture novelty to keep romance alive.
Themes
relationships
passion
routine
novelty
marriage
Mood
humorous
reflective
Type
observational
satirical
When to use this quote
- long‑term partnership
- anniversary celebrations
- relationship counseling
- daily rituals
Key Concepts
psychology of love
habituation
relationship dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can couples keep excitement alive?
- What small changes revive intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Not all marriages follow this pattern; some sustain passion.
