Breaths Quote by Garrison Keillor
“We have nearly complete misunderstanding between people of different faiths in Lake Wobegon, and that's probably one reason why we get along so very well. It's when you are trying to convince another person to think the same way that you do that there is friction and trouble between people. But when you feel that the other person is dumber than dirt, too dumb for words - why waste your breath - you get along pretty well. There's no bond between people that's quite so strong as when people each feel slightly superior towards the other one.”
About This Quote
Source Radio Show: A Prairie Home Companion, 1995
People bond more when they feel slightly superior to each other, while attempts to convince others of the same view create friction.
In simple terms: Superiority fosters easy rapport; trying to convince creates conflict.
Recognize humility to reduce conflict.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- political debates
- interfaith dialogues
- team meetings
- online forums
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we feel better when we think we are smarter?
- How can humility improve relationships?
Assuming superiority can blind you to others' perspectives.