Being nice Quote by David Sedaris
“I always say to young people, "Get the hell out of the United States." Especially if you're young, like if you're 21 or something. Let's say you don't speak any Italian. You're 21. Everyone's going to want to sleep with you and be nice to you. And the best way to learn a language is to sleep with someone from that country.”
About This Quote
Immersion through intimate relationships can accelerate language learning, but the advice is provocative and not universally appropriate.
In simple terms: Live with locals to learn a language fast.
Intimacy can speed cultural acquisition.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- study abroad programs
- exchange student housing
- language‑exchange dating
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- Engage in daily conversations with native speakers
- Participate in community activities
Questions to Reflect On
- What respectful ways can you immerse yourself in a language?
- How do you balance personal boundaries with learning goals?
The suggestion risks reducing people to language tools and may be unsafe or unethical.