Asks Quote by P. J. O'Rourke

“Dates used to be made days or even weeks in advance. Now dates tend to be made the day after. That is, you get a phone call from someone who says, "If anyone asks, I was out to dinner with you last night, okay?"” quote by P. J. O'Rourke — Download Open image

“Dates used to be made days or even weeks in advance. Now dates tend to be made the day after. That is, you get a phone call from someone who says, "If anyone asks, I was out to dinner with you last night, okay?"”

P. J. O'Rourke

About This Quote

Source Essay: The New Yorker, 1998

Modern dating has become spontaneous, with last‑minute arrangements replacing long‑term planning.

In simple terms: Dating is now spontaneous.

Key Takeaway

Embrace flexibility in social plans.

Themes

spontaneity dating culture modernity

Mood

lighthearted observational

Type

humorous social

When to use this quote

nightlife
online dating
friendship

Key Concepts

social behavior time management

Questions to Reflect On

Do you prefer spontaneity or planning?
How does this affect relationships?

A Different Perspective

Impulsive plans can cause miscommunication.

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