Apologies Quote by Garrison Keillor
“When the New Yorker turned down work, they turned it down in such an elaborately gentlemanly way making apologies for their own shortsightedness. Undoubtedly it was their fault but somehow for some reason this fell short of the remarkably high standard that you by your own work have set for yourself. They had a way of rejecting my work that made me feel sorry for them somehow.”
About This Quote
A polite, elaborate rejection can mask underlying shortcomings, leaving the creator feeling sympathy for the rejecter.
In simple terms: Polite refusals can hide real flaws, causing misplaced pity.
Key Takeaway
Recognize polite language may conceal criticism.
Themes
communication
rejection
ego
professionalism
Mood
empathetic
critical
Type
professional
reflective
When to use this quote
- job applications
- publishing submissions
- artistic proposals
- performance reviews
Key Concepts
social dynamics
self‑esteem
feedback loops
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we feel sorry for those who reject us?
- How can we request clearer reasons?
A Different Perspective
Politeness can prevent honest feedback and growth.
