Baby Quote by Erma Bombeck
“I have always felt that too much time was given before the birth, which is spent learning things like how to breathe in and out with your husband (I had my baby when they gave you a shot in the hip and you didn't wake up until the kid was ready to start school), and not enough time given to how to mother after the baby is born.”
About This Quote
Source Column: The New York Times, 1995
Pregnancy preparation often emphasizes birth, neglecting post‑birth parenting skills, leaving mothers under‑prepared for early motherhood challenges.
In simple terms: Pre‑birth focus overshadows post‑birth learning.
Key Takeaway
Seek post‑birth guidance early.
Themes
parenting
pregnancy
education
family life
women's health
Mood
empathetic
reflective
Type
advice
personal narrative
When to use this quote
- prenatal classes
- parenting workshops
- peer support groups
- online resources
Key Concepts
maternal preparedness
early childhood development
support systems
Questions to Reflect On
- What post‑birth skills feel missing?
- How can new parents prepare before birth?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on birth can cause anxiety after delivery.
![“[After the twins' birth,] I spent two years doing nothing. I was a wife and a mom. But you need that time to grow. You can't be afraid of, 'Oh, I'm out of the public, then I'm going to have to make a comeback.' It's ridiculous. No.” quote by Jennifer Lopez](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/a09/jennifer-lopez-1227_birth_after-the-twins-birth-i-spent-two-years_1843713.jpg)
