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Food Quote by Tom Robbins

“There is lovemaking that is bad for a person, just as there is eating that is bad. That boysenberry cream pie from the Thrift-E Mart may appear inviting, may, in fact, cause all nine hundred taste buds to carol from the tongue, but in the end, the sugars, the additives, the empty calories clog…” quote by Tom Robbins
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““There is lovemaking that is bad for a person, just as there is eating that is bad. That boysenberry cream pie from the Thrift-E Mart may appear inviting, may, in fact, cause all nine hundred taste buds to carol from the tongue, but in the end, the sugars, the additives, the empty calories clog arteries, disrupt cells, generate fat, and rot teeth. Even potentially nourishing foods can be improperly prepared. There are wrong combinations and improper preparations in sex as well. Yes, one must prepare for a fuck--the way an enlightened priest prepares to celebrate mass, the way a great matador prepares for the ring: with intensification, with purification, with a conscious summoning of sacred power. And even that won't work if the ingredients are poorly matched: oysters are delectable, so are strawberries, but mashed together ... (?!) Every nutritious sexual recipe calls for at least a pinch of love, and the fucks that rate four-star rankings from both gourmets and health-food nuts use cupfuls. Not that sex should be regarded as therapeutic or to be taken for medicinal purposes--only a dullard would hang such a millstone around the nibbled neck of a lay--but to approach sex carelessly, shallowly, with detachment and without warmth is to dine night after night in erotic greasy spoons. In time, one's palate will become insensitive, one will suffer (without knowing it) emotional malnutrition, the skin of the soul will fester with scurvy, the teeth of the heart will decay. Neither duration nor proclamation of commitment is necessarily the measure--there are ephemeral explosions of passion between strangers that make more erotic sense than lengthy marriages, there are one-night stands in Jersey City more glorious than six-months affairs in Paris--but finally there is a commitment, however brief; a purity, however threatened; a vulnerability, however concealed; a generosity of spirit, however marbled with need; and honest caring , however singled by lust, that must be present if couplings are to be salubrious and not slow poison.””

Tom Robbins

About This Quote

Source Book: Still Life with Woodpecker by Tom Robbins, 1980

Sex, like food, requires mindful preparation, balance, and genuine affection; neglect leads to emotional and relational decay.

In simple terms: Sex needs care and balance like good cooking.

Key Takeaway

Treat intimacy with intention and love.

Themes

relationships intimacy mindfulness health balance

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • long‑term partnership
  • sexual health
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

holistic wellbeing emotional nutrition ethical pleasure

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you bring more mindfulness to your intimate moments?
  • What habits nurture emotional nutrition in relationships?
A Different Perspective

A purely physical approach can still cause harm even with good intentions.

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