Food Quote by Boyé Lafayette de Mente
““The two “code words” itadakimasu (ee-tah-dah-kee-mahss) and gochisoh sama (go-chee-sohh sah-mah) are very important parts of the dining etiquette in Japan. Itadakimasu, said just before eating, literally means “to receive” or “to accept,” but in this context it is an institutionalized term that has a ritual connotation, almost like a prayer. Gochisoh sama, which has the meaning of “thank you for the meal or drinks,” is said after the completion of a meal, when leaving the table or shortly thereafter, to whomever has provided the meal, whether at a restaurant or at someone’s home.””
About This Quote
These Japanese phrases frame meals as a shared ritual, expressing gratitude before and after eating, reinforcing social bonds and respect for the provider.
In simple terms: Expressions of gratitude and mindfulness in dining
Key Takeaway
Meals are communal, respectful acts
Themes
cultural etiquette
gratitude
mindfulness
social cohesion
ritual language
Mood
respectful
reflective
warm
Type
cultural observation
instructional quote
When to use this quote
- family dinner at home
- restaurant visit
- cultural exchange workshop
- language class
- travel guide
Key Concepts
Japanese language
dining customs
interpersonal respect
Practical Applications
- Teaching cross‑cultural etiquette
- Designing hospitality training
Questions to Reflect On
- How does saying these phrases affect the diner's mindset?
- What would be lost if such rituals disappeared?
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