Henry, you mustn’t mind. It is really a kindness to have…
““Henry, you mustn’t mind. It is really a kindness to have him.’ ‘Well, I do mind, Emily,’ said Mr Leslie, getting up. ‘Kindness is one thing and your family is another. You treat this house as if it were the Ark, Emily, inviting everyone in.’ ‘At least she doesn’t ask them in couples, sir,’ said David. ‘A female Holt would be appalling.’ ‘That’s enough,’ said his father. ‘If Mr Holt comes into this house, I go out of it.’ He took a cigar from the sideboard and went out, almost slamming the door.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A family member draws a line between kindness and personal boundaries, refusing to host someone they dislike.
In simple terms: Kindness has limits when personal values clash.
Set clear boundaries despite goodwill.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- hosting guests
- conflict resolution
- personal values
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance kindness with personal comfort?
- When is it appropriate to refuse a guest?
Boundaries may strain relationships if not communicated sensitively.