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“When I asked him for some explanation as to why he wanted to kill me, he said it was because he didn't like his jobs. When I asked him since when had he not liked his jobs, he said since always. When I remarked that he had never told me this, and that I had gotten the impression that he had liked…” quote by Amanda Filipacchi
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““When I asked him for some explanation as to why he wanted to kill me, he said it was because he didn't like his jobs. When I asked him since when had he not liked his jobs, he said since always. When I remarked that he had never told me this, and that I had gotten the impression that he had liked them, he said: "How is that possible? You know me. Do I strike you as stupid or boring?" "No." "Then how could you think I would enjoy being an etiquette expert, or a Weight Watchers' counselor, or a stripper? How could you think that someone like me, with my mind, my character, would derive any satisfaction from those things?””

Amanda Filipacchi

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People often rationalize harmful actions with vague personal grievances, revealing deeper identity conflicts.

In simple terms: Excuses hide deeper self‑conflict.

Key Takeaway

Examine underlying motives behind harmful behavior.

Themes

identity self‑deception conflict

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace disputes
  • self‑reflection
  • therapy

Key Concepts

psychology existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we create narratives to justify pain?
  • What does this reveal about our self‑image?
A Different Perspective

Excuses may oversimplify complex motivations.

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