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Humorous Quote by Richard Brinsley Sheridan

“SNEER. But, what the deuce, is the confidante to be mad too? PUFF. To be sure she is. The confidante is always to do whatever her mistress does- weep when she weeps, smile when she smiles, go mad when she goes mad.-Now, Madam Confidante! But keep your madness in the background, if you please.” quote by Richard Brinsley Sheridan
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““SNEER. But, what the deuce, is the confidante to be mad too? PUFF. To be sure she is. The confidante is always to do whatever her mistress does- weep when she weeps, smile when she smiles, go mad when she goes mad.-Now, Madam Confidante! But keep your madness in the background, if you please.””

Richard Brinsley Sheridan

About This Quote

Source Play: The Rivals, 1775

A confidante must mirror her mistress’s emotions, but keep her own madness hidden.

In simple terms: A friend copies emotions but hides her own instability.

Key Takeaway

Support others while managing personal turmoil.

Themes

friendship emotional mirroring self‑control masquerade

Mood

dramatic ironic

Type

satire dialogue

When to use this quote

  • theatre performance
  • personal relationships
  • mental health discussions

Key Concepts

identity psychology social roles

Questions to Reflect On

  • When does empathy become self‑loss?
  • How to balance loyalty with self‑preservation?
A Different Perspective

Mirroring can blur personal boundaries.

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