Habits Quote by David H. Maister
““Sincerity, the way we usually mean it, has to do with intentions; we assume it comes from within. But our clients have no way to observe sincerity except through external behaviors. From certain behaviors (attention paid, interest shown, advance work done, empathetic listening), we infer the internal state we call sincerity. Thus,””
About This Quote
Sincerity is inferred from actions because internal motives are invisible, leading to judgments based on behavior.
In simple terms: We judge sincerity by what we see.
Observe actions, not just words.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- client meetings
- team management
- customer service
- negotiations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What behaviors reliably signal sincerity?
- How can you convey genuine intent?
Actions can be misread without context.