Relationship Quote by David H. Maister
““A good rule to remember is that, in relationships, there are no win-lose or lose-win combinations: There are only win-wins and lose-loses.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Trusted Advisor, David H. Maister, 2000
Relationships succeed when both parties benefit; win‑lose thinking limits collaboration.
In simple terms: Only mutual benefit matters.
Key Takeaway
Seek win‑win outcomes.
Themes
collaboration
mutual benefit
conflict resolution
Mood
optimistic
strategic
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- business partnerships
- team projects
- family decisions
- friendship disputes
Key Concepts
game theory
negotiation dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you reframe a conflict to create shared value?
- What compromises are acceptable for both sides?
A Different Perspective
Win‑win may be unrealistic if goals fundamentally clash.
