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“To save our friends’ nerves, I suggest we meet on a plane of brutal courtesy. It need not interfere with our mutual distrust.” -Francis Crawford of Lymond” quote by Dorothy Dunnett
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““To save our friends’ nerves, I suggest we meet on a plane of brutal courtesy. It need not interfere with our mutual distrust.” -Francis Crawford of Lymond””

Dorothy Dunnett

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Polite civility can mask deep mistrust, allowing interaction without genuine connection.

In simple terms: Politeness hides true feelings.

Key Takeaway

Recognize when courtesy is a shield.

Themes

politics trust social masks

Mood

cautious analytical

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • diplomatic negotiations
  • family gatherings
  • business deals

Key Concepts

civility distrust strategic interaction

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “brutal courtesy” reveal about power?
  • Can trust be rebuilt after such masks?
A Different Perspective

Politeness can also be manipulative.

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