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“The young child asked, “Which one will win the fight?” And the grandfather replied, “Whichever one you feed.” If we replay and obsess about negative thoughts and criticisms, we will strengthen them, and they will win.” quote by Kathy Obear
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““The young child asked, “Which one will win the fight?” And the grandfather replied, “Whichever one you feed.” If we replay and obsess about negative thoughts and criticisms, we will strengthen them, and they will win.””

Kathy Obear

About This Quote

Focusing on negative thoughts gives them power, while nurturing positive ones leads to success.

In simple terms: Feeding thoughts determines which thoughts dominate.

Key Takeaway

Choose to feed positive thoughts.

Themes

mindset self‑talk growth resilience

Mood

reflective motivational

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal development
  • mental health
  • coaching
  • conflict resolution
  • stress management

Key Concepts

cognitive bias neuroplasticity self‑fulfilling prophecy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What thoughts are you feeding today?
  • How can you shift focus to constructive ideas?
A Different Perspective

Neglecting positive thoughts can leave you vulnerable to pessimism.

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