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Reality Quote by Kathy Obear

“We “create our own reality” by how we choose to make meaning and interpret situations we encounter. Our story creates our feelings, the physiological “warning signs” that we are triggered, and our thoughts about ourselves and others. We are usually unaware of why we created this interpretation and…” quote by Kathy Obear
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““We “create our own reality” by how we choose to make meaning and interpret situations we encounter. Our story creates our feelings, the physiological “warning signs” that we are triggered, and our thoughts about ourselves and others. We are usually unaware of why we created this interpretation and we rarely question its validity or explore the intrapersonal roots that fueled our meaning making. We accept our story as “fact” and are often unaware of how it results in triggered emotions and unconscious reactions.””

Kathy Obear

About This Quote

We construct personal narratives that shape emotions and reactions, often without awareness, leading to automatic responses.

In simple terms: Our stories dictate feelings and actions.

Key Takeaway

Question and rewrite your internal narratives.

Themes

psychology self‑awareness emotion regulation

Mood

introspective thoughtful

Type

psychological motivational

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • coaching
  • conflict resolution
  • personal development

Key Concepts

cognitive framing self‑concept mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your personal story affect your reactions?
  • What steps can you take to examine its validity?
A Different Perspective

Changing deep‑seated narratives can be challenging and time‑consuming.

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