Goals Quote by Kathy Obear

“Unfortunately, once we have reacted, there is no way to undo our impact.”

— Kathy Obear

“When our feelings are extremely high, we probably shouldn’t trust our initial perceptions or thoughts. If we have an intense, disproportionate reaction, it is…

— Kathy Obear

“While I may not appreciate someone’s actions in the moment, it is useful to try to understand and relate to the possible underlying reasons…

— Kathy Obear

“The ability to observe without evaluation is the highest form of intelligence.” ~ Jiddu Krishnamurti”

— Kathy Obear

“We can also use The Cycle as we anticipate how we may feel triggered in future situations. We can imagine how we might typically…

— Kathy Obear

“We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.” ~ Carlos Castaneda”

— Kathy Obear

“However, in my experience, it takes significant skill to be grounded enough to intentionally choose effective responses. And one of the biggest obstacles is…

— Kathy Obear

“The young child asked, “Which one will win the fight?” And the grandfather replied, “Whichever one you feed.” If we replay and obsess about…

— Kathy Obear

“Keep a list in your journal of all the ways you have responded productively in difficult situations, as well as the impact your response…

— Kathy Obear

“We “create our own reality” by how we choose to make meaning and interpret situations we encounter. Our story creates our feelings, the physiological…

— Kathy Obear

“If she had, instead, assumed that her colleague was being curious, possibly wanting to know what he needed to do to be selected for…

— Kathy Obear

“Whenever you are about to find fault with someone, ask yourself the following question: What fault of mine most nearly resembles the one I…

— Kathy Obear