Amplify Quote by Doug Stanhope
“I recommend to you, in my last, an innocent piece of art: that of flattering people behind their backs, in presence of those who, to make their own court, much more than for your sake, will not fail to repeat, and even amplify, the praise to the party concerned. This is of all flattery the most pleasing, and consequently the most effectual.”
About This Quote
Flattery done behind someone's back, praised publicly, is the most effective and pleasing form of praise.
In simple terms: Back‑handed praise works best.
Key Takeaway
Use indirect compliments for greater impact.
Themes
social dynamics
influence
communication
Mood
cunning
strategic
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- political maneuvering
- office politics
- personal relationships
- public speaking
Key Concepts
psychology
reputation management
Questions to Reflect On
- Is indirect praise ethical?
- How does it affect relationships?
A Different Perspective
It can breed distrust if discovered.
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