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“unpredictability of my profession with my brother recently, he told me about scientific studies where lab rats were rewarded with food pellets… — Dan Harris Science Copy Share Image
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“Mark also pointed out that mindfulness was a skill—one that would improve as I got more meditation hours under my belt. In… — Dan Harris Meditation Copy Share Image
Prepare like no other, know that there was nothing left for you to do when it's all said and done. This way… — Dan Harris Better man Copy Share Image
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“Seeing a problem clearly does not prevent you from taking action, he explained. Acceptance is not passivity. Sometimes we are justifiably displeased.… — Dan Harris Buddhism Copy Share Image
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Happiness, it turns out, is a skill-one that you can train, just like you train your body in the gym. This is… — Dan Harris Bigs Copy Share Image
“Acknowledging other people’s basic humanity is a remarkably effective way of shooing away the swarm of self-referential thoughts that buzz like gnats… — Dan Harris Nature of man Copy Share Image
Add it all up, and some prominent Obama supporters are now saying that it paints a picture of an opposition driven, in… — Dan Harris Accepting Copy Share Image
“The Buddhists had a helpful analogy here. Picture the mind like a waterfall, they said: the water is the torrent of thoughts… — Dan Harris Buddhism Copy Share Image
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Meditation suffers from a towering PR problem.… If you can get past the cultural baggage, though, what you’ll find is that meditation… — Dan Harris Baggage Copy Share Image
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“research shows that “firm but kind” is the smarter play. People trained in self-compassion meditation are more likely to quit smoking and… — Dan Harris Compassion Copy Share Image
“They had a suggestion for me: I should go on a retreat. Recognizing the look of dread on my face, they acknowledged… — Dan Harris Fear Copy Share Image
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