Love Quote by Augusten Burroughs
““If you meet somebody and they love you when you are your true, awful, not-ready-yet, boring, not cool enough, not handsome enough, not pretty enough, too fat, too poor self? And if you love them back so much it makes you calm? And they have flaws and you do not mind a single one of them? That means you get yourself to the church and you pull one of those priests out of bed and you have him cast one of those wedding spells on you. If you’re gay and this happens, you might have to rent a car first and drive to one of the states that operates a few hours ahead. Because if you found that, you found it.””
About This Quote
True acceptance of an imperfect partner, despite personal insecurities, is portrayed as a rare, almost magical, love that transcends societal norms.
In simple terms: Loving imperfectly is magical.
Key Takeaway
Authentic love embraces flaws and defies expectations.
Themes
love
self‑acceptance
identity
societal norms
Mood
hopeful
intimate
Type
personal narrative
philosophical reflection
When to use this quote
- coming‑out experiences
- long‑term relationships
- support groups
Key Concepts
psychology of attachment
L identity
Practical Applications
- practice unconditional acceptance
- challenge stigma around queer love
Questions to Reflect On
- How does self‑esteem affect partner choice?
- What societal barriers persist for queer couples?
A Different Perspective
Romanticizing hardship can overlook practical challenges of relationships.
