“If we speak only our primary language and encounter someone else who speaks only his or her primary language, which is different… — Gary Chapman Communication Copy Share Image
“Eventually, however, we all descend from the clouds and plant our feet on earth again. Our eyes are opened, and we see… — Gary Chapman Nature Copy Share Image
“When a workplace becomes toxic, its poison spreads beyond its walls and into the lives of its workers and their families. In… — Gary Chapman Family Copy Share Image
True love cannot begin until the "in love" experience has run it's course. — Gary Chapman Love Copy Share Image
The pattern often has been entrenched since childhood... [abusive people] don't think that there is anything wrong with them because that is… — Gary Chapman Abusive Copy Share Image
Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another, to know a love… — Gary Chapman Choices Copy Share Image
“In the house of the wise are stores of choice food and oil, but a foolish man devours all he has” (Proverbs… — Gary Chapman Foolish man Copy Share Image
“The choice to do or say something for the other person's benefit, that would help make them a better person, something that… — Gary Chapman Better person Copy Share Image
Most people spend far more time in preparation for their vocation than they do in preparation for marriage. — Gary Chapman Marriage Copy Share Image
Encouragement requires empathy and seeing the world from your spouse's perspective. We must first learn what is important to our spouse. Only… — Gary Chapman Ability Copy Share Image
I cannot change others, but I can influence others... we can't change people, but we can and we do influence people, and… — Gary Chapman Can't change Copy Share Image
Respect begins with this attitude: "I acknowledge that you are a creature of extreme worth. God has endowed you with certain abilities… — Gary Chapman Ability Copy Share Image
Lack of love from parents often motivates their children to go searching for love in other relationships. This search is often misguided… — Gary Chapman Children Copy Share Image
What is emotional intimacy? It is that depp sense of being connected to one another. It is feeling loved, respected and appreciated,… — Gary Chapman Ability Copy Share Image
It is universal to give gifts as an expression of love. My academic background is anthropology, the study of cultures. We have… — Gary Chapman Culture Copy Share Image
“Let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. EPHESIANS… — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
“The social institution of marriage is first and foremost a covenant relationship in which a man and a woman pledge themselves to… — Gary Chapman Bible Copy Share Image
Physician Albert Scheweitzer said. " We are all so much together, but we are all dying of loneliness." Professor Leo Buscaglia notes,… — Gary Chapman Born Copy Share Image
“If I choose justice and seek to pay my spouse back or make her pay for her wrongdoing, I am making myself… — Gary Chapman Forgiveness Copy Share Image
Love is the fundamental building block of all human relationships. It will greatly impact our values and morals. Love is the important… — Gary Chapman Block Copy Share Image
“But if, once we return to the real world of human choice, we choose to be kind and generous, that is real… — Gary Chapman Love Copy Share Image
..there is hope. That's the marvelous thing about being human. We can change our future. We need not be enslaved by the… — Gary Chapman Being human Copy Share Image
“Discipline is not a negative word. It comes from the Greek word "to train.” — Gary Chapman Children Copy Share Image
Nobody has the power to make you miserable . . . unless you choose to give them that power. Choose to enjoy… — Gary Chapman Cherish every moment Copy Share Image