Gary Chapman

Expressing love in the right language. We tend to speak our own love language, to express love to others in a language…

— Gary Chapman

When you're married, the person you would most like to love you is your spouse. And if you feel loved by your…

— Gary Chapman

“It was tough handling angry, troubled kids all day, but that didn’t drain me nearly as much as being snubbed by the…

— Gary Chapman

Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment. It is a choice to show mercy, not to hold the offense up…

— Gary Chapman

“Quality time does not mean that we have to spend our together moments gazing into each other’s eyes. It means that we…

— Gary Chapman

“When we express appreciation, it means that we recognize the value of the other person's contribution to our relationship/ Each of us…

— Gary Chapman

We can look at the pain in our lives. We can look at the way we have been mistreated, and we can…

— Gary Chapman

In a difficult marriage, both of us have failed each other. Even though one may be the major problem,you also have failed…

— Gary Chapman

What is emotional intimacy? It is that depp sense of being connected to one another. It is feeling loved, respected and appreciated,…

— Gary Chapman

I wrote this book [ Desperate Marriages] because of my own marriage. My wife and I struggled greatly in the early years…

— Gary Chapman

“I would like to make three other observations. First, they illustrate clearly that what we do for each other before marriage is…

— Gary Chapman

If we are to develop an intimate relationship, we need to know each other's desires. If we wish to love each other,…

— Gary Chapman

The reality is, if you go to the library and read biographies, thousands of people have changed, radically changed. St. Augustine was…

— Gary Chapman

“Negative feelings are more often alleviated when they are ignored rather than pampered. When you act positively in spite of negative emotions,…

— Gary Chapman