Choices Quote by Gary Chapman
“Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment. It is a choice to show mercy, not to hold the offense up against the offender. Forgiveness is an expression of love.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman, 1995
Forgiveness is a deliberate act of mercy, not an emotion, expressing love toward the offender.
In simple terms: Forgiveness is a choice.
Key Takeaway
Choose mercy over resentment.
Themes
forgiveness
love
choice
Mood
hopeful
compassionate
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage conflict
- family dispute
- workplace grievance
Key Concepts
ethics
relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you forgive without forgetting?
- What does mercy look like for you?
A Different Perspective
Forgiveness can be difficult when the offense is severe.
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