Bad impression Quote by Susan C. Young
““Hugging is quite an intimate contact. Considering the studies done on proxemics we looked at earlier; when you get within two feet of another person you are inside their intimate space. There are some people who truly do not want you in their 'bubble' unless you are close friends or they’ve given you permission. Assuming familiarity incorrectly can destroy rapport, make a bad impression, and risk everything you have done well up to then.””
About This Quote
Source Article: Proxemics and Social Interaction, Journal of Communication Studies, 2019
Physical closeness can signal intimacy, but assuming familiarity without consent can damage relationships and undermine trust.
In simple terms: Assuming closeness without permission harms rapport.
Key Takeaway
Respect personal space to build trust.
Themes
social interaction
personal boundaries
communication
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advisory
observational
When to use this quote
- business meetings
- networking events
- first dates
- team collaborations
Key Concepts
proxemics
social cues
trust building
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you gauge comfort levels before approaching?
- What signals indicate someone’s willingness for closer contact?
A Different Perspective
If cultural norms differ, misreading distance may cause unintended offense.
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