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Absent Quote by Mark Twain

“I have criticized absent people so often, and then discovered, to my humiliation, that I was talking with their relatives, that I have grown superstitious about that sort of thing and dropped it.” quote by Mark Twain
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“I have criticized absent people so often, and then discovered, to my humiliation, that I was talking with their relatives, that I have grown superstitious about that sort of thing and dropped it.”

Mark Twain

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Adventures of Tom Sawyer by Mark Twain, 1876

He realized he was criticizing absent people, only to discover they were related to him, leading to superstition and cessation of the habit.

In simple terms: He stopped criticizing absent people after realizing they were relatives.

Key Takeaway

Avoid judging unseen others.

Themes

humor self‑reflection superstition

Mood

reflective light‑hearted

Type

personal anecdotal

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • online discussions
  • workplace gossip
  • political debates

Key Concepts

self‑awareness bias social perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you ever criticize those you never meet?
  • How can we recognize unseen connections?
A Different Perspective

He may still hold hidden biases despite the realization.

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