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Excellence Quote by Brené Brown

“Perfectionism is a shield that we carry with a thought process that says this, 'If I look perfect, live perfect, work perfect, and do it all perfectly, I can avoid or minimize feeling shame, blame, and judgement.” quote by Brené Brown
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““Perfectionism is a shield that we carry with a thought process that says this, 'If I look perfect, live perfect, work perfect, and do it all perfectly, I can avoid or minimize feeling shame, blame, and judgement.””

Brené Brown

About This Quote

Source Book: Daring Greatly, Brené Brown, 2012

Perfectionism is used to avoid shame by demanding flawless performance in all areas.

In simple terms: Perfectionism hides shame.

Key Takeaway

Accept imperfection to reduce shame.

Themes

vulnerability self‑acceptance shame perfectionism

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

motivational self‑help

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • creative projects
  • personal relationships
  • self‑improvement

Key Concepts

self‑compassion psychology defense mechanisms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does striving for perfection affect your wellbeing?
  • What small steps can you take to embrace imperfection?
A Different Perspective

Perfectionism can also drive excellence; balance is needed.

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