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Excellence Quote by Brené Brown

“Perfectionism is not the same thing has striving to be your best. Perfectionism is the belief that if we live perfect, look perfect, and act perfect, we can minimize or avoid the pain of blame, judgement, and shame. It’s a shield. It’s a twenty-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will…” quote by Brené Brown
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““Perfectionism is not the same thing has striving to be your best. Perfectionism is the belief that if we live perfect, look perfect, and act perfect, we can minimize or avoid the pain of blame, judgement, and shame. It’s a shield. It’s a twenty-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it’s the thing that’s really preventing us from flight.””

Brené Brown

About This Quote

Source Talk: The Power of Vulnerability, TED Talk, 2010

Perfectionism is a protective shield that actually hinders growth and authentic living.

In simple terms: Perfectionism blocks true freedom.

Key Takeaway

Release the need to be perfect.

Themes

perfectionism vulnerability self‑acceptance psychology

Mood

candid empowering introspective

Type

motivational psychological

When to use this quote

  • creative work
  • public speaking
  • relationship building
  • self‑care routines

Key Concepts

self‑criticism shielding personal growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does your perfectionist shield protect?
  • How might letting go improve your life?
A Different Perspective

The shield can become a prison if not examined.

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