Commitment Quote by Warren Farrell
“When women hold off from marrying men, we call it independence. When men hold off from marrying women, we call it fear of commitment.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Myth of Male Power, Warren Farrell, 1993
Societal labels differ: women’s delay in marriage is praised as independence, men’s as fear.
In simple terms: Men and women are judged differently for the same behavior.
Key Takeaway
Challenge gendered double standards.
Themes
gender
relationships
social norms
Mood
analytical
provocative
Type
critical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- career planning
- family expectations
Key Concepts
feminist theory
masculinity studies
Questions to Reflect On
- What assumptions underlie these labels?
- How can we foster equal respect for personal decisions?
A Different Perspective
The view oversimplifies complex personal choices and may reinforce stereotypes.
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