Marriage Quote by Alan Jay Lerner
““The commitment of marriage can frequently arouse some rather peculiar behaviour in men and women alike, but the bizarre notion that one can change the character of one's mate seems to occur more often to women than to men.””
About This Quote
Source Musical: The Sound of Music, 1959
Marriage often triggers unusual behavior, and many women mistakenly believe they can change their partner’s nature.
In simple terms: People think they can change spouses, especially women.
Key Takeaway
Accept partners as they are.
Themes
relationships
expectations
gender dynamics
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
advisory
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- relationship advice
- family dynamics
Key Concepts
psychology
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we try to change loved ones?
- What are healthier expectations in marriage?
A Different Perspective
Changing a partner’s core character is unrealistic.
![“I don't like being away from home. That's one reason why I don't work as much as I used to [when I started my career], because so many things are on the road. I just don't want to be away from my husband, my dogs and my home. I don't sing that much any more because that also takes you on the road.” quote by Jane Powell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/07c/jane-powell-36243_away_i-don-t-like-being-away-from-home-that-s_278.jpg)
