Communication skills Quote by Susan C. Young
““Ignoring his advice, I got up, walked over, gently rested my hands on two of their shoulders and said, “Ladies, I have to tell you how much you have impressed me. I just moved to Madison from Florida and left behind all my girlfriends. I have been sitting over there admiring your friendships. You remind me so much of my girlfriends back home and I had to come over and speak with you.” And without missing a beat, I next asked, “Can I be your friend?” They were so impressed by my sincere request, they kindly opened their circle and invited me in.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: Personal anecdote, 2023
A sincere, direct approach can break social barriers and foster new friendships.
In simple terms: Being genuine opens doors.
Key Takeaway
Approach people honestly and ask for connection.
Themes
social confidence
authenticity
friendship
Mood
warm
encouraging
Type
personal
motivational
When to use this quote
- networking events
- social gatherings
- new workplaces
- online communities
Key Concepts
communication
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What makes a request feel genuine?
- How can you gauge comfort levels?
A Different Perspective
Over‑eagerness may be perceived as insincere.
