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Confidence Quote by Sheryl Sandberg

“hold ourselves back in ways both big and small, by lacking self-confidence, by not raising our hands, and by pulling back when we should be leaning in. We internalize the negative messages we get throughout our lives—the messages that say it’s wrong to be outspoken, aggressive, more powerful than…” quote by Sheryl Sandberg
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““hold ourselves back in ways both big and small, by lacking self-confidence, by not raising our hands, and by pulling back when we should be leaning in. We internalize the negative messages we get throughout our lives—the messages that say it’s wrong to be outspoken, aggressive, more powerful than men.””

Sheryl Sandberg

About This Quote

Source Speech: TED Talk, 2010

The passage highlights how self‑doubt and societal messages suppress women’s confidence and willingness to assert themselves.

In simple terms: Women often hold back due to internalized negative beliefs.

Key Takeaway

Challenge limiting beliefs and speak up.

Themes

gender confidence social conditioning empowerment

Mood

motivational empowering

Type

inspirational practical

When to use this quote

  • career advancement
  • public speaking
  • leadership
  • education

Key Concepts

psychology gender studies

Questions to Reflect On

  • What messages have you internalized about speaking out?
  • How can you support others to overcome self‑doubt?
A Different Perspective

Some may argue personal agency also matters.

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