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“The wise thing is for us diligently to train ourselves to lie thoughtfully, judiciously; to lie with a good object, and not an evil one; to lie for others' advantage, and not our own; to lie healingly, charitably, humanely, not cruelly, hurtfully, maliciously; to lie gracefully and graciously, not…” quote by Mark Twain
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“The wise thing is for us diligently to train ourselves to lie thoughtfully, judiciously; to lie with a good object, and not an evil one; to lie for others' advantage, and not our own; to lie healingly, charitably, humanely, not cruelly, hurtfully, maliciously; to lie gracefully and graciously, not awkwardly and clumsily; to lie firmly, frankly, squarely, with head erect, not haltingly, tortuously, with pusillanimous mien, as being ashamed of our high calling.”

Mark Twain

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Source Essay: "The Wise Thing" by Mark Twain, 1885

The passage argues that lying can be ethically guided if done with good intent, compassion, and dignity, avoiding harm and selfishness.

In simple terms: Lying can be moral if purposeful and kind.

Key Takeaway

Use deception only to protect or help, never to harm.

Themes

ethics communication integrity

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • political negotiation
  • medical truth-telling
  • protective white lies
  • conflict resolution
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

moral relativism intentional deception compassionate lying

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is a lie justified?
  • How does intent affect moral judgment?
A Different Perspective

Even well‑intended lies can erode trust and cause unintended harm.

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