Advantage Quote by Mark Twain
“The wise thing is for us diligently to train ourselves to lie thoughtfully, judiciously; to lie with a good object, and not an evil one; to lie for others' advantage, and not our own; to lie healingly, charitably, humanely, not cruelly, hurtfully, maliciously; to lie gracefully and graciously, not awkwardly and clumsily; to lie firmly, frankly, squarely, with head erect, not haltingly, tortuously, with pusillanimous mien, as being ashamed of our high calling.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: "The Wise Thing" by Mark Twain, 1885
The passage argues that lying can be ethically guided if done with good intent, compassion, and dignity, avoiding harm and selfishness.
In simple terms: Lying can be moral if purposeful and kind.
Use deception only to protect or help, never to harm.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- political negotiation
- medical truth-telling
- protective white lies
- conflict resolution
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When is a lie justified?
- How does intent affect moral judgment?
Even well‑intended lies can erode trust and cause unintended harm.