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Argument Quote by Mark Twain

“If husbands could realize what large returns of profit may be gotten out of a wife by a small word of praise paid over the counter when the market is just right, they would bring matters around the way they wish them much oftener than they usually do. Arguments are unsafe with wives, because they…” quote by Mark Twain
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“If husbands could realize what large returns of profit may be gotten out of a wife by a small word of praise paid over the counter when the market is just right, they would bring matters around the way they wish them much oftener than they usually do. Arguments are unsafe with wives, because they examine them; but they do not examine compliments. One can pass upon a wife a compliment that is three-fourths base”

Mark Twain

About This Quote

Source Book: The Adventures of Tom Sawyer, 1876

Treating a spouse with sincere praise yields greater returns than arguments, as compliments are less scrutinized and more effective.

In simple terms: Praise a wife more than arguing.

Key Takeaway

Give genuine compliments often.

Themes

relationships communication appreciation

Mood

warm thoughtful

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • daily interactions
  • team building
  • leadership
  • customer service

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics positive reinforcement

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you ensure compliments are genuine?
  • What balance of praise and critique works best?
A Different Perspective

Compliments may feel insincere if overused.

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