Attention Quote by Mark Coleman
“Mindfulness is the primary tool in that we get a little space between ourselves and the thoughts and then we actually can be more responsive, as in: Do I want to listen to that? Do I want to ignore it? Do I want to say "no thank you". Do I want to inquire if that's really true or helpful? So we start with mindfulness and we're not engaging, because as soon as we do that, we've given the critic authority. Instead, we want to notice the critic but not give it any attention, not really give it much value.”
About This Quote
Source Talk: Mindfulness Workshop, 2019
Mindfulness creates space between self and thoughts, allowing choice over reaction rather than automatic engagement.
In simple terms: Mindfulness gives you a pause before reacting.
Use mindfulness to observe thoughts without granting them power.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- stressful meetings
- online arguments
- negative self‑talk
- habit change
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What thought patterns do you notice most?
- How can you practice non‑attachment to inner critics?
Mindfulness alone may not stop deeply ingrained habits without practice.