Abuse Quote by Lundy Bancroft

“ABUSIVE MEN COME in every personality type, arise from good childhoods and bad ones, are macho men or gentle, “liberated” men. No psychological test…

— Lundy Bancroft

“Men choosing abuse need to be connected to choices. They are not powerless. Take them back to the beginnings of their relationship. They would…

— Andrew King

Conflict comes from a person's own actions, not what someone else does to them.

— Paul Rust

The thing about abuse is it's just a cycle of hatred. The person who is gonna abuse you has been abused, and he continues…

— Denzel Curry

“HE ISN’T ABUSIVE BECAUSE HE IS ANGRY; HE’S ANGRY BECAUSE HE’S ABUSIVE.”

— Lundy Bancroft

“All conflict can be traced back to someone’s feelings getting hurt”

— Liane Moriarty

“A home where a woman is abused is a small-scale model of much larger oppressive systems that work in remarkably similar ways. Many of…

— Lundy Bancroft

It is not he who gives abuse that affronts, but the view that we take of it as insulting; so that when one provokes…

— Epictetus

“The abuser’s mood changes are especially perplexing. He can be a different person from day to day, or even from hour to hour. At…

— Lundy Bancroft

“When we don’t honor ourselves, we are coming into agreement with the abuser’s toxic agenda. We end up abusing ourselves too.   While”

— Shannon Thomas

“Abuse can take many forms. It always involves a boundary violation, although every boundary violation is not necessarily abuse.”

— Adelyn Birch

“Consider how challenging it is to negotiate or compromise with a man who operates on the following tenets (whether or not he ever says…

— Lundy Bancroft