Being true Quote by Iyanla Vanzant
“Many of us believe that we are victims to what happens to us, and therefore unworthy of anything better. What we've been taught and trained to believe about ourselves as children, often this is negative and we need to unlearn that. The way we unlearn them is by having a vision and moving forward. Staying focused and being true to that vision of what we desire for ourselves.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Spiritual Life Lessons, Iyanla Vanzant, 2010
We often internalize childhood negativity, seeing ourselves as unworthy, but can replace it by envisioning a better future and staying committed to that vision.
In simple terms: Negative self‑belief can be overwritten by a clear, hopeful vision.
Adopt a positive vision and pursue it.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal coaching
- goal setting
- daily affirmations
- mindfulness practice
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What vision can you create for yourself?
- How will you stay aligned with it?
Changing deep‑seated beliefs can be slow and may face resistance.