Pain is pain, hurt is hurt, fear is fear, anger is anger, and it has no color. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The life you want is on the other side of the labor pains it takes to birth it. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can't just cry about the pain. You can't just pray about the pain. You must eliminate the pain. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Until you make peace with your difficult memories, that pain will continue to bleed into your current and future experiences. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You must find the strength to open the wounds, stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
One of the ways that people avoid taking responsibility for their role in their own pain is what I call the BPs… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When we want to move beyond the pain, when we want to feel better, when we are ready to move beyond where… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you are a card-carrying human being, chances are that you share the same fear as all other humans: the fear of… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
No matter what is going on in your life today, remember, it is only preparation. People come and go; situations rise and… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Most of us know exactly what it is that creates the pain, confusion, stagnation and disruption in our lives. When we find… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
As people, we have forgotten to be people. We know how to be doctors, lawyers, nurses, teachers, we know what to do,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Why do we hold onto negativity? For some reason, we believe that others are affected by our experience of remaining upset, hurt… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Forgiveness is a process of giving up the old for something new. Old experiences and memories that we hold on to in… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
What do you do when it seems as if people want to stay in their pain. They have a story to tell… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
For some reason,we keep forgetting some of our experience. We look back but don't bring the value forward. We bring the anger, the upset.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
“Life would be so much easier if, when we hit a snag in a relationship, any relationship, we would stop, address it, and move… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here about a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We are distracted from our greatness because are greatness is what scares us. Right where you are…God is. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car, I do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image