The only way to get what you really want is to let go of what you don't want. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Create what you want as opposed to being stuck in what you didn't have. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Breathing deeply and releasing fear will help you get to where you want to be. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you want to be at peace, you have to be clear about your intetion and - moment by moment - in… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I don't think there's such a thing as a selfish prayer. Prayer puts you in communication so you can talk about whatever… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When we want to move beyond the pain, when we want to feel better, when we are ready to move beyond where… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I pray because I am real clear that what I am doing and how I am doing it is my service, is… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Instead of running from what you don't want, walk with commitment toward what you desire. Focus on where you are going rather… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Rather than beating yourself up for what you are not doing, appreciate and celebrate the things you are doing. When you shift… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Tell the truth about who you are, what you feel, what you want, what you're up to. Tell the truth about that… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Changing your life does not always mean that you stop doing certain things. It may mean that you start doing certain other… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you want peace, be peace. If you want wealth, be wealth. Think it. Talk it. Prepare yourself to have it. Have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Speak and live in simple sentences. Bring closure -- put a period to -- those experiences that you don't want to carry… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
In order to feel loved, be respected and stay connected, we humans have a tendency to lie. We lie about who we… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you know something or someone in your life is unhealthy or unproductive, that you have grown beyond where they are and… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Joy is what we are, not what we must get. Joy is the realization that all we want or need in life… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
What do you do when it seems as if people want to stay in their pain. They have a story to tell… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
It’s self-full to be first, to be as good as possible to you. To take care of you, keep you whole and… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you are not happy where you are, and you are not quite sure if you want to leave or how to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you want to run the show, God will let you. If you want to pull all the strings, that's up to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You will stumble at time, forget what you want, fall headfirst into your old habits and beliefs. Fear not! Always remember to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
THE KEY TO SUCCESS is not what you do, it is how you feel about what you are doing. Success begins with… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you refuse to pay attention to what life is saying to you, life will make its point very clear. Life wants… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Until today, you may not have realized that your life provides the content of your obituary. Just for today, examine your life.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Most of us know exactly what it is that creates the pain, confusion, stagnation and disruption in our lives. When we find… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you want a real experience of serenity, look for the good. Affirm the good. Acknowledge the good. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You have set standards for how you want to be treated and what you expect from yourself and for yourself. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The life you want is on the other side of the labor pains it takes to birth it. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Be willing to share all of who you are. So many of us want a partner, but we're not willing to show… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We all want to be liked, loved, or needed. That is fine. What is not fine is what we are willing to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Stuff your feelings because feelings buried alive don't die. And that fear or that upset or that anger or that whatever it… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Why do we hold onto negativity? For some reason, we believe that others are affected by our experience of remaining upset, hurt… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We have a tendency to always test people's love. 'I want to see how badly I have to behave before you'll leave… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Each day, focus your attention on what you want. Each day, take one step that will bring you closer to it. ALL… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Be willing to share all of who you are. So many of us want a partner, but we're not willing to show… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Your job, work, life assignment must be the spark that fuels your fire. It must be a passion that you pursue. You… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
There is nothing you need to do to make yourself more acceptable to God. You don't have to work harder, nor do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You have a right to say no. Most of us have very weak and flaccid 'no' muscles. We feel guilty for saying… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
For some reason,we keep forgetting some of our experience. We look back but don't bring the value forward. We bring the anger, the upset.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
“Life would be so much easier if, when we hit a snag in a relationship, any relationship, we would stop, address it, and move… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here about a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We are distracted from our greatness because are greatness is what scares us. Right where you are…God is. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car, I do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
