I now know that nothing in my life will change until I change the way I see my life and myself. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you are in alignment with the desires of your heart, things have a way of working out. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The only way to get what you really want is to let go of what you don't want. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The way to achieve your own success is to be willing to help somebody else get it first. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When your way doesn't work, don't be disheartened. You must be willing to try another way. A closed door doesn't mean you… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Authenticity means that you must do what you do the way you do it and allow everyone else the same courtesy. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
One of the ways that people avoid taking responsibility for their role in their own pain is what I call the BPs… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Everything happens when it needs to happen; everyone is always where they need to be. You will never miss out on what… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you stand and share your story in an empowering way, your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people. But until you heal the wounds of your past,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Be patient when it seems things are not going right and may never be right again. Accept that what is yours will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Each of us was born to fulfill a divine purpose. As we open our hearts and minds to a new way of… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
It is a given that we will all make some mistakes in life. It is a given that you will make inappropriate… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Don't get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it's your victories that… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you are open to receive what God is able to do for you, you stop doing. You learn how to "Be… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
At your worst point, the quickest way to move through it is to be a contribution as opposed to focusing on your… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
What do you do when it seems as if people want to stay in their pain. They have a story to tell… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Trust is not about being comfortable. It is about being willing to move beyond your comfort zone when there is absolutely no… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
At times I have long conversations with God. Sometimes I ask questions. I admit that there are also times when I let… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Finally and most important of all, authenticity means that you must do what you do the way you do it and allow… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you want to run the show, God will let you. If you want to pull all the strings, that's up to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
One way to eliminate self negating thoughts and behavior is by gaining more understanding through realizing that you cannot force others to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Beloveds, you are fine, just the way you are! Perfect in your imperfection! You are divine! Growing brighter and more brilliant each… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I have learned the hard way to mind my business, without judging who people are and what they do. I am more… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
A wound needs air in order to heal. We must talk about and expose those things which have hurt or harmed us… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I'm moving into that eldership age, you know? I'm at the 'wise woman' age where it's not about learning, but utilizing the… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Planning is the only way to keep yourself on track. Plan your moments to be joyous. Plan your days to be filled… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You must earn what you have. Life does not give you anything. You must give in order to get. You must stand… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
At every single moment, we are given the opportunity to choose our future. What we do today will determine what we face… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
For some reason,we keep forgetting some of our experience. We look back but don't bring the value forward. We bring the anger, the upset.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
“Life would be so much easier if, when we hit a snag in a relationship, any relationship, we would stop, address it, and move… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here about a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We are distracted from our greatness because are greatness is what scares us. Right where you are…God is. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car, I do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
