When you're the strong one, people don't give you permission to hurt. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Give yourself permission to smile a lot today. In fact, why not make it a habit! — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You're demonstrating a courage that most people can't even fathom: giving it all away in order to have yourself — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you give to others to the degree that you sacrifice yourself, you make the other person a thief. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
It is not what you hear, it is where you listen from within yourself that gives meaning to the message. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Oprah Winfrey gives you the stage? Shut your mouth. I said, 'I'm sorry for taking over your show.' She said, 'No, that's… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you continue to give without receiving, the only thing you are proving is that you know how to be taken advantage… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I'm focusing on healing lives and teaching people that they can heal - giving them tools to heal. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You must be willing to give total unconditional love to everyone, under all circumstances. That means being willing to be totally responsible… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I really don't have any weaknesses. I do have areas of my life that I am working on to grow, heal and… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We must learn not to give up when requirements are not met or when commitments are broken. To do so is a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We make our days pleasant or miserable. If we insist on being miserable, irritable and nasty, more than likely the day will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
It's important that we share our experiences with other people. Your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
There are no guarantees in life, but it is a sure thing that you will get back what you give. If you… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
In love, there is a total acceptance of self, and a willingness to give of self without an expectation of receiving anything… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
To honor life, we must be willing to grow through what we don't know yet, and outgrow what we know no longer… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Abundance is a direct reflection of your preparation to live abundantly. People who are ready for abundance keep their heads up, their… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Forgiveness is a process of giving up the old for something new. Old experiences and memories that we hold on to in… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You must earn what you have. Life does not give you anything. You must give in order to get. You must stand… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Your job, work, life assignment must be the spark that fuels your fire. It must be a passion that you pursue. You… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I love a vision board. I have one hanging over my desk right now. Because what you see, you become, and it… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
There is nothing you need to do to make yourself more acceptable to God. You don't have to work harder, nor do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Perhaps you went to bed last night thinking about the overdue bills, the lack of finances, the problematic people and situations you… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Your interests will guide you. Give no concern to what they say you cannot do. Be willing to accept the challenge. Take… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
What a blessing that God allows a life to come through your body, and then allows you to place that body in… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
In my mind, marriage is a spiritual partnership and union in which we willingly give and receive love, create and share intimacy,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The only relationship we can have in this life is the relationship we have with ourselves. We cannot love anybody more than… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You've got to know what your 'thing' is, and you've got to call it a 'thing,' whether it's meanness, nastiness, un-forgiveness, arrogance,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
At your worst point, the quickest way to move through it is to be a contribution as opposed to focusing on your… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you are open to receive what God is able to do for you, you stop doing. You learn how to "Be… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
There comes a point in time when you must know that everything you have already given or done is enough. This is… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
For some reason,we keep forgetting some of our experience. We look back but don't bring the value forward. We bring the anger, the upset.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
“Life would be so much easier if, when we hit a snag in a relationship, any relationship, we would stop, address it, and move… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here about a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We are distracted from our greatness because are greatness is what scares us. Right where you are…God is. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car, I do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
