You cannot experience the fullness of your authentic self or life when you live to avoid hurt. You will never know the… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you want to run the show, God will let you. If you want to pull all the strings, that's up to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you know something or someone in your life is unhealthy or unproductive, that you have grown beyond where they are and… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Transformation doesn't have to be deep, dark and mysterious. If you screw up, fine - laugh at yourself, learn and move on. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Joy is what we are, not what we must get. Joy is the realization that all we want or need in life… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Everything happens when it needs to happen; everyone is always where they need to be. You will never miss out on what… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Have the courage to be exactly who you are without apology. Admit your mistakes without beating yourself up. Release all shame! Release… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you really believe that you are worthy of the best, that you deserve the best & that there is enough of… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you want to be at peace, you have to be clear about your intetion and - moment by moment - in… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
A wound needs air in order to heal. We must talk about and expose those things which have hurt or harmed us… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Be patient with yourself. Be gentle with yourself. Know that all things are working in your favor. If you take one step… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When a thing has served its purpose, it will go away. Sometimes it will break. At other times, it will simply die… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you are not happy where you are, and you are not quite sure if you want to leave or how to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You know why the road curves as you're driving along? It curves because if God showed us the distance from where we… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Spirit is the key to everything we desire. It is our weather-proofing, our Teflon, our line of credit that assures if we… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When there is breakdown in a relationship, you must have the hard conversation. It may not be pretty and it may not… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I pray because I am real clear that what I am doing and how I am doing it is my service, is… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Your job, work, life assignment must be the spark that fuels your fire. It must be a passion that you pursue. You… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
What do you do when it seems as if people want to stay in their pain. They have a story to tell… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Until today, you may not have realized that your life provides the content of your obituary. Just for today, examine your life.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Stop hiding! Stop holding yourself back and playing yourself down! Stop worrying about how you look and what people are saying. Stop… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
For some reason,we keep forgetting some of our experience. We look back but don't bring the value forward. We bring the anger, the upset.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
“Life would be so much easier if, when we hit a snag in a relationship, any relationship, we would stop, address it, and move… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here about a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We are distracted from our greatness because are greatness is what scares us. Right where you are…God is. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car, I do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image