Addiction Quote by Gabor Maté
““What characterizes an addiction?” asks the spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle. “Quite simply this: you no longer feel that you have the power to stop. It seems stronger than you. It also gives you a false sense of pleasure, pleasure that invariably turns into pain.” Addiction cuts large swaths across our culture. Many of us are burdened with compulsive behaviours that harm us and others, behaviours whose toxicity we fail to acknowledge or feel powerless to stop. Many people are addicted to accumulating wealth; for others the compulsive pull is power. Men and women become addicted to consumerism, status, shopping or fetishized relationships, not to mention the obvious and widespread addictions such as gambling, sex, junk food and the cult of the “young” body image. The following report from the Guardian Weekly speaks for itself: Americans now [2006] spend an alarming $15 billion a year on cosmetic surgery in a beautification frenzy that would be frowned upon if there was anyone left in the U.S. who could actually frown with their Botox-frozen faces. The sum is double Malawi’s gross domestic product and more than twice what America has contributed to AIDS programs in the past decade. Demand has exploded to produce a new generation of obsessives, or “beauty junkies.””
About This Quote
Source Article: Guardian Weekly, 2006, “The Beauty Junkies” report
Addiction is the loss of perceived control, offering false pleasure that inevitably becomes pain, manifesting in many compulsive behaviors.
In simple terms: Addiction feels like loss of control and false pleasure that turns painful.
Recognize loss of control and seek healthier fulfillment.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- cosmetic surgery
- wealth accumulation
- status seeking
- shopping addiction
- relationship obsession
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does perceived control affect your habits?
- What alternatives give genuine satisfaction?
Addiction can be reinforced by social norms and marketing, making change harder.