Marriage Quote by Ellen Wood
““A second marriage, a new mistress suddenly brought to an established home, rarely gives pleasure to its inmates. This applies in an especial degree to its women-servants. Whatever the cause may be, it is an indisputable fact, that the second marriage of a master is rarely liked, and the new bride is regarded with anything but love. The case was such at the Hall. Tritton, the housekeeper, had lived in the family of Miss Carleton before she was Mrs. St. John; had come with her to the Hall when she married; and it was only natural, perhaps, that she should look upon her successor somewhat in the light of an usurper.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: East Lynne by Ellen Wood, 1861
Second marriages disrupt household dynamics, often causing resentment, especially among servants who view the new wife as an intruder.
In simple terms: New wives can cause tension in homes.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and address household feelings during transitions.
Themes
family dynamics
marriage
servant relations
jealousy
power shifts
Mood
tension
uncertainty
reflective
Type
advice
social commentary
When to use this quote
- blended families
- household management
- servant employment
- marriage counseling
Key Concepts
social hierarchy
emotional insecurity
adaptation
Questions to Reflect On
- How can families ease the transition for all members?
- What strategies help servants feel respected?
A Different Perspective
Assumes all second marriages cause strife, ignoring positive outcomes.
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