Acts of love Quote by Elizabeth Gilbert
“As somebody who, in my second marriage, insisted on a prenuptial agreement, I can also testify that sometimes it is an act of love to chart the exit strategy before you enter the union, in order to make sure that not only you, but your partner as well, knows that there will be no World War III should hearts and minds, for any sad reason, change.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Moth Storytelling Podcast, 2015
Planning for possible separation can be an act of love, ensuring both partners feel secure and respected.
In simple terms: Plan for exit to protect love.
Key Takeaway
Discuss expectations early.
Themes
relationships
trust
security
Mood
thoughtful
pragmatic
Type
advice
relationship
When to use this quote
- marriage
- cohabitation
- financial planning
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
boundaries
risk management
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you discuss exit plans without hurting romance?
- What boundaries protect love?
A Different Perspective
May feel unromantic or cynical.
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