Faith Quote by Brené Brown
““The new cultural belief that everything should be fun, fast, and easy is inconsistent with hopeful thinking. It also sets us up for hopelessness. When we experience something that is difficult and requires significant time and effort, we are quick to think, This is supposed to be easy; it’s not worth the effort, or, This should be easier: it’s only hard and slow because I’m not good at it. Hopeful self-talk sounds more like, This is tough, but I can do it.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Dare to Lead by Brené Brown, 2018
The passage critiques the modern expectation of effortless enjoyment, urging acceptance of difficulty and fostering hope through realistic self-talk.
In simple terms: Accept challenges; avoid false optimism.
Embrace effort and realistic optimism.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- learning new skills
- career advancement
- personal projects
- health goals
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What difficult task can you reframe positively?
- How can you balance fun with effort?
Overemphasis on ease can lead to burnout and avoidance.